Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Good news : why keep it?

In my hectic day yesterday, MrHubby called me, telling that a friend was at the hospital. Surprised whether the friend fell ill or what, MrHubby was even surprised when he said he was waiting for the wife who is already 2cm dilated in the labour room.

My response was...
What? Dilated? When did she get pregnant?

MrHubby : Tu la, they never told us. Tau-tau je dah kat hospital.

And few mins ago, I received a text msg on the arrival of the third baby.

Gosh!

Us, being the proud parents. Kalo boleh nak announce 1 dunia.


That was actually the 2nd time our friends made such hello-tak-lawak-pun-la surprise!

The first one was during the new hijriah year last month, when MrHubby got a text msg for a happy new year with a p/s of my wife has safely delivered a baby...bla...bla...

My response...
Hey! They didn't tell us that she was pregnant of the 2nd baby!

I don't understand why these considered-close-la-jugak people didn't share the good news on the new-arrival-to-be?

Not to be a qaypo-chee, but they had a good 9months to do so.

Nak kata MrHubby & I would kecik hati, nope. Nak kata diorang kecik ati with us, jauh sekali. The last time we met, everything was okay. In fact, we did keep in touch once in a while.

If u really wanted to make it a surprise, why tell us when the baby is born? Simpan je la baby tu dalam almari... and do not bring him/her to meet us until he/she grows that 20yrs later I could ask "Is this your gigolo/mistress?"

Now I'm thinking, if I were to be tested positive again for pregnancy, perhaps I should keep the good news from these people too... unless they read my blog (Eleh, Isabelle... pregnant ke kau?) :P

Hmmm... why am I so emo lately?
Or do I sound pathetic?

17 comments:

  1. not pathetic laa emo je kot huhuhu! ko pregnant meh? hahahah@!~

    1st sebab-malas nak bagi tau time preknen sebab tak dapat amenda
    2nd sebab -bagi tau bila dah lahir so boleh dapat hadiah kalo ko dtg visit@!~

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  2. jiji,
    belum lagi la, wei.
    tapi disebabkan what they did, i rasa malas nak visit pun ada gak.kang x pasal2 ada menanah telinga kena perli dgn i yg telus nih :P

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  3. kalau sekali tak bagitau ok la kot... tapi dua kali tak bagitau... dia la kot yang sumthin wrong sumwhere.

    tapi u takyah lah kecik ati. sebab cayalah... dia akan buat lagi.

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  4. hurmm ada ..mmg ada org mcm tu..kwn i pun ada sorg..tp sib baik kami duk jauh..dia nun jauh di perak..so ok la, nak sorok pun kisah perut boyot dia..tp xbest la kan, xmo bitau kita as her friend..tp last2 dia bitau jgk sbb i dapat rasa dia prgnt lg hehehh

    p/s: pedulik je la nk bitau ke tak..konon surprise sgt la tu :P

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  5. Dd Lala,
    hah? buat lagi? tunggu la smpi i perli baekkk punya.

    ELIZA,
    surprise le sgt ek? kalo surprise pun, it's unpleasant la

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  6. Aa ahh..emo lah Isabelle..and if i were u pon i will felt the same too..

    And may be u pregnant jugak kot..so emosi berbeza but u dah kata tak kan..tp klu pregie citer ngan kitorg tau..

    I pulak what happened u know, my considered-closed-friend jugak laa..kawen tak bagi tau..jemput apatah lagi..tau2 jer sent me text message tya kabar..i tya balik dia cakap dah bersalin baru seminggu dua lepas pantang..haaaa...apakahh..?? lagi sakit hati kan..so i pon dgn malasnya nak tya bila bersalin, anak apa, nama apa..non of my bisnes..kakakakkaa..

    p/s: ehh skrg sape yg emo nih..hihi :-D

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  7. hahahaha isabelle...

    tp rasenye mmg patut awak emola..

    klu yan.. wife kawan2 hubby peknen.. ade yg bitau ade yg senyap.. tp kite tak rase apela.. sebab tak rapat dgn derang.. juz hubby je kawan baik ngan hubby dia..

    tp klu kawan baik sendiri buat camtu.. berkemungkinan yanpn akan emo.. so far takde lgla kawan yg wat pangai camni.. kawin tak jemput.. bersalin tak bitau ke ape ke..

    bg diri yan sendiri.. ms fes bby mmg agak ghairah nak bitau semua orang, nak kongsi cerita ms peknen.. tp utk yg kedua ketiga dan seterusnye klu diberikan rezeki.. rasenye tak kot.. takut ade yg terase.. coz yan ade a few fren yg tak dpt anak lg.. a few yg trying for second bby sampai hampir 10tahun.. pun tak berjaya lg..

    kawan yan ada sorang peknen lepas 2 bulan bersalin anak fes.. dia malu ngan kawan2 opis sampai amik keputusan benti keje.. malu takut orang kata dia tak pandai planning ke.. tak menyabar ke ape2la.. beseler mulut orangkn..

    tahla rasenye depapn ade sebab kot.. or maybe rase seronot wat surprised camtu kat korang.. hehe

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  8. diorg anak rapat2 ke? sbb biasanya kalo rapat2, org malu sket. ye la kan..

    but i see no reasons knp nak purposely sorok2. do u guys meet often? for the 1st trimester maybe la i rahsiakan, but if anyone ask, i won't deny it. good news apa kan?

    tp ada sorg member kat UK ni dah pregnant 7 bulan tau (due march ni). we all tahu kat sini, tp family kat msia dia x nak bgtau. nnt dia balik collect data this june, baru bawak balik baby baru. lawak tul la laki bini nih... hehe.. kalo i, dah leh nak contain excitement sendiri2 for tht long!

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  9. hmm, sorang kawan, kira kawan paling rapat kat tempat kerja tu pun, tak bagitau juga yang dia pregnant. bila ada orang perasan perut dia besar sikit dan tanya kat 'best friend' dia nih, baru lah dia cerita..

    dan, dia dah ada sorang anak dengan previous husband pun dia tak pernah bagitau sampai sekarang. tau dari orang lain dan pernah jumpa sekali sekala. dan, sekalipun kawan rapat, saya tak pernah nak bertanya... malas nak ambik tau kalau dia sendiri taknak bagitau.. :P

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  10. ehehe agree with u benda baik buat apa nak simpan kan.. apa nak sembunyi sangat at lest bila org tau org akan doakan yg terbaik buat kita...
    i pun tak paham ngan situasi cenggini.. kalau i lah mesti i gembira nak kasi tau org berita baik tu kan..

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  11. imma,
    i pun ada sorg best fren mcm tu. kawin senyap2..tau2 je bersalin.
    so, masa 2nd baby ni, dah brp bulan ntah..i x visit lagi (haa..aku sungguh jahat)

    yan,
    betul tu. kalo gap dekat2, maybe org segan nak bgtau. tapi ntahlah... to those who know me, i'm not that type langsung-yg kondem2 org. dah Allah nak bg rezeki, nak malu apanye?

    oyis,
    wahahaha...kalo i pregnant ms buat PhD, bagus gak idea tu.
    but...err..on 2nd thought... xnak la pregnant masa PhD. hahaha.
    lgpun kalo buat local, harus la kantoi terus :P

    sya,
    mmg la kalo x rapat, kita jrg share. tapi kalo dah hubbies pun masing2 contct mcm biasa, ktorg pun sekali-sekala bertanya khabar.. kalo x bgtau tu, nmpk sgt sengaja nye.

    lady of leisure,
    so, should i put my emo aside & pay them a visit? kalo ikut hati, mmg xnak!!!

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  12. hahaha...harus preggie babe!!
    :D

    erm, i pun kalo preggie ke hape harus nak share!! tak blh nk secret rasanya...

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  13. fizamior,
    kita ni dasar nak canang satu kampung. hihihi

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  14. selalunya org yg taknak share ni ada 3 sbb utama je:-

    1) segan kot kalau2 rapat2 (gap 5-6 bln je)

    2) takut2 tak menjadi

    3) bkn anak kandung

    Alaah...kita ni mmg jenis kepoh. so jgn amik hatilah org dgn yg taknak share tu! dia rasa x penting pun...

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  15. salzahari,
    huh...xnak share sudah!!!(muka ala2 merajuk).
    tapi u jgn xbgtau pulak kalo dah cfirm ada nnt ye? ;P

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  16. if me have good news, satu dunia sudah gempar.. huhuhuh

    i want to share my hapiness. bukan nk berlagak ke aper

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  17. Ada certain org xnak share sbb muka diarang hodoh time mengandung... kalau boleh xnak kuar umah... x vogue katanya... alah kalau xnak org tgk perut tu buncit tu.. update jelah kt wall post kat FB tu.. org tau tp just xnmpk rupa jer... xde ler org kata menyombong... tp betullah Belle agak emo entry ni... rilek sket bleh... hahaha...

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