Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Should I or shouldn't I?

Kawan-kawan, I need ur advice la...



Gini...

Early this year, I have expressed my dilemma of sending him to the sitter or to change to another daycare. Eventually, until today, I keep sending him to the former.

However, these days, Lil Adam asyik buat taktik lembik lutut when I send him to the sitter's place. I dunno why.

But there's a new toddler who is kinda kawan wrestling Lil Adam, but seems like my boy doesn't fancy him for God-knows-what reason. (aku tengok budak tu macam biasa je.)



Yesterday we went to have a look at a daycare centre (in the neighbourhood). It's a nice place, and there are about 4 kids of about Lil Adam's age. They have learning activities, dan waktu petang masa budak2 lain solat, these toddlers can observe/follow if they wish.

Masalahnye...
1. Tempat tu takde jaga baby. So, if I were to have another baby (mana la tau kan?), that means I might have to send him/her to another place... atau tukar Lil Adam ke daycare lain pulak.

2. I have to send him at about 7.30am, dengan Lil Adam dah siap mandi. Woh! Kalo dulu, maybe senang... but lately he has started to sleep late and wake up late. (this morning, I waited for him until 8.30am... luckily I wasn't in a rush).

So, peeps...can u please help me to make a wise decision, whether or not to keep him there or to switch?
Pleassseeee... Thanks eh?

9 comments:

  1. look like tempat yang baru ni macam better sebab ada activities... tapi i susah nak kasi pendapat sebab belum ada pengalaman... tsk...

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  2. hmm..susah juga ye.,dengan yg lama mmg prob sangat ke? kalau boleh tahan n die jaga elok, baik stay. Sebab kita tak tahu kalau tukar tempat baru apa pula masalahnya. Tapi kalau memang tak boleh tahan, apa salahnya cuba. Bab dapat baby, nnti dapat kita fikir lain. Oh bolehka begitu? Sekadar pendapat..

    Yana pn sampai sekarang pening tak tahu nak hntar mana. Huhu.

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  3. kak, if u rasa tempat baru ni is better then switch je la. ok wat bgun awal, kira cam latihan la utk biasakan adam bgn awal. tema ialah disiplin ye puan2...pasal dapat baby tu, xyah pk skrg kot. baby pun blom buat lagik kan ekeke~

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  4. hi is.. alang2 my post pon psl nursery jgk, of course la my pendapat is gonna be biased.. hehe...

    i say hantar je. i think budak2 ni lg enjoy kot, kalo buat xtvt yg fulfilling sket ramai2 kt nursery. plus it's obvious that he's either bored or x suka dgn sesuatu at the sitter's house, so maybe this is a change for the better?

    psl baby baru, i sokong yana. kalo ada nnt, kita pikir hehe. plus u nak sambung study pon dah kan? so ntah2 u dah fly dah by the time the baby is here ke, who knows? :)

    and also sokong adihana psl latihan bgn awal. from early this year aisyah mmg bgn before 8 siap tukar pampers, mandi, pakai baju apa semua sbb terpaksa nak hntr kat ayah dia, who works at the uni finishes at 8.30, whilst my work plak masuk 9 am. penat u, but pikir, x pe la, bgn pg rezeki murah hehehe, insya Allah...

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  5. lady,
    tp i serba salah.mana la tau esok2 dpt baby ke?

    babyibu,
    yg lama xde la problem, cuma kalo i fetch adam lmbt skit, muka ketat/kelat skit la..hehe

    adihana,
    mana kau tau akak xbuat lg, dik?kekekeke.
    ermmm betul gak ye, disiplin tu bagus.

    oyis,
    i mmg bangun awal. adam tu ha...kalo bangun2 je, i dah nak hntr, harus la cranky. but again, ur wise advice is valuable to me.
    prolly i'll wait for another month or so before sending him to that new place. bukan apa..kalo x, lagi 2 ari je tinggal...esok & lusa. hehe

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  6. Isabelle, having the same problems with AIR too...he doens't seem to be enjoying himself with the current sitter. Bosan agaknya.But in my case, I've still not found another alternative.

    I sokong la the change for Adam. With activities etc it will be more beneficial than just playing among themselves.

    Pasal baby, think about it when the time comes la...don't worry too much now :)

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  7. 1) Give yourself and him a try...Mmg risiko laah jgk nak bangunkan dan siapkan dia awal, make him presentable terus hntr. Tapi it is a way to discipline him to real school (huh..lmbt pun lagi).

    2) New baby,insyallah..Nanti fikir lagi camne bila dah pegnant.Tak susah pun kalau hantar 2 tmpt sbb ada my staff buat camtu,anak2 dia besar htr kindy,yg baby hntr sitter dpn rumah. tgk rezeki anak2!

    * As myself pun,undecided jgk sbb haruslah PIL penat kalau jaga 2 org.. Thinking of getting a maid,so all in one tapi hal2 lain lak mungkin timbul.So x mau fikir2 sgt lagi!

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  8. Day care!! hahahah pengisian peting belle, dari abis masa terbuang je ngn babysitter. dah besar dah boleh jalan tegap ok laa antar daycare.

    Aku hantar Anis kat playschool ni br sebulan cikgu dia kata perkembangan minda dia dah tinggi kalo nak ikot umor dia yg 16 bulan.

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  9. reitak,
    i'll discuss more with mrhubby. elok gak hntr dia ke daycare kalo kwn2 dah advise mcm tu.

    salzahari,
    hmm...nmpk gayanya mcm tu la ye? i have to put aside that 'adik adam' part.

    jiji,
    wah..anis manis memang bijak. cayang cikit...

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