Thursday, April 8, 2010

How to Be the Woman Men Adore ... and Never Want to Leave

Have you ever met the kind of woman ...

* who brings out the romantic and passionate side of a man
* that men fall hopelessly in love with
* whom men want to please and do anything for * with whom men want to spend all their time
* to whom men want to give everything?

U might wonder... What special quality, trait, or personality does this woman have that men find attractive and draws them like a magnet, makes men powerless in her hands, and makes them want to spend their lives with her? (background music: I Want To Spend My Lifetime Loving U)

Frankly speaking, my observation showed that these women are not all the prettiest, tthe smartest, the tallest, sexy, busty...yada yada... as one might think!

Let's look at two examples in history...
  • Mumtaz, for whom the Emperor Shah Jehan built the Taj Mahal
  • Camilla Parker Bowles, who won the heart of Prince Charles
Tak lawa pun Camilla tu as compared to Princess Diana kan? (aku tau Camilla x baca blog aku).

But these women sure know the secret to creating magic with men. Well, the magic can be learned by any woman. So, there's no excuse not to have 'the magnet.'

Most women (and teenagers) magz teach us how to look, be and act around men, etc. The fact is at ur fingertips: U could make him adore U just by being yourself.

I repeat- U don't have to be anything but yourself.
And U also have to understand what a man wants.

Toksah la buat keje bodo such as...

  • Kira Tajul Muluk - dah tu, kalo esok nak menikah, baru tau x serasi, nak buang segala hantaran, nak kensel segala tempahan pelamin/katerer bagai?
  • Compatibility test ikut star signs - dah kawin, tau2 baru sedar tak serasi signs tu. So, nak bercerai?
  • Serasi tak serasi ikut unsur Tanah, Air, Api, Angin - ni pesan orang tua, tapi well, we should know ourselves better.
Kadang-kadang kita kira-kira, baca horoskop ni suka-suka je. Tapi kalo tersilap yakin, walau sedetik dalam hati berkata "Patut la aku tak ngam dengan dia, horoskop tu memang cakap macam tu."... Silap haribulan, syirik pulak.

So, again...If u ask yourself... "Will giving him what he wants get u what u want?"

The answer is "Yes!"

Try ler.

p/s: Yang dah kawin, buleh try everything that he wants. Yang belum kawin, agak-agak le.


  1. before i kawin..mcam2 dugaan jadi..cincin tunang ilangla..sampai org kata tu petanda burukla..and ada sorg ustaz ni penah ramal buruk..until now i ingat.tapi kita takleyla pecaya..nanti jatuh syirik pulak.

  2. lin muhamad,
    amboi..ustaz pun percaya benda2 karut ke? tapi alhamdulillah, u bahagia kan?

  3. i agree with the part when u said 'be yourself'.. if our other half cannot accept us for who we are, then they don't deserve us at all ;)

    but of course, tak salah kalau kita find ways to spice up our relationship coz itu yang kita akan ingat sampai bila2.. ye tak? after all, if they're happy, we'll be too ;)

  4. aida ikmal,
    sure, those lil things will make the r/ship better. tapi jgn smpi involved dgn perkara karut pulak.

  5. haha.. i like the past paragraph...
    :D thanks for sharing... kinda agree with u.. tak semestinya cantik saja yang menawan kan...

  6. lady,
    hehe. betoi..betoi...i x cantik pun, tapi i think i am adorable (to some men la, at least).

  7. Couldn't agree more abt "Be YOurself".

  8. i dulu pun cek tajul muluk *saje gatal2 je* sbb masa tu ada ramai boipren ekeke last2 xde sorang pun dr ramai2 boipren tu jd hubby i muahahaha

  9. temp hsewife,
    so, cantik huduh, buruk baik is just revealed.senang citer.

    yatie chomeyl,
    hahaha. ye-ye-o je kan?


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