Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Macho men don't cry?

I'm sure most of us have heard the manly phrases like
  • No woman no cry (Bob Marley)
  • Real/great men don't cry
  • etc.
Whoever coined the phrases might not be a real man, I'd say.


When the dashing (is he?) Fahrin Ahmad made a press conference denying his ex-girlfriends (Scha & Linda Onn's) accusation saying that he's bad tempered and it was the reason that soured the ties, there were various fedbacks from fans, media and the public.

Well, Fahrin... people come and go.
Friendships are formed, grow, some leave and some stay, but I believe a companion never lets you down. Prolly u picked the wrong girl. Or u might need to contemplate what have u done to them both.

For women, tears are always ready to flow...be it joy or sorrow. But seeing a man shedding his tears is like
What? Kasi malu jer...
or perhaps
Pity him! I wonder what made him cry?

This morning, Hotfm morning crew discussed about Men Who Cry.
There was this guy who called, claiming he never cried thoughout his whole life. Boastfully, he said that his late dad never cried, thus his male siblings were always reminded not to cry (for whatever reason).

I felt like giving a call to say...
Don't u know that two types of drop that'd extinguish the hell fire are:-
  • The tears that drop bcoz of fear of (taqwa) Allah
  • The blood of the syahid warriors fisabilillah

And those who find it hard to shed a tear is bcoz their hearts are as hard as a stone!

  • Hati yang keras adalah kerana berbuat dosa
  • Berbuat dosa adalah kerana lupa mati/lupa Allah
  • Lupa mati/lupa Allah adalah kerana banyak angan-angan
  • Banyak angan-angan adalah kerana cintakan dunia
  • Dan cintakan dunia adalah punca segala maksiat

Sometimes, the radio callers resemble the shallowness of the people nowadays and it's really worrisome. The last time, I heard a caller asked "How do I recite the doa akhir/awal tahun, I don't know the doa?"
Ewah-ewah! Engkau boleh sms Linda Onn, tapi kau tak boleh google cari doa tu ke? Tak reti pergi berjemaah baca doa tu kat masjid ke?

The other time, when the issue of maskahwin to be increased to RM300, a caller said..."Eleh, naik 300 pun nak kecoh. Dah tu? Ingat senang-senang je nak kawin?"
Haishh..macam jahil sangat je. Tak pernah dengar ke "sebaik-baik wanita ialah yang paling rendah maharnya".

Alamak! Emo pulak...
Oh okay...back to the crying/shedding tears topic.

Well, men or women...no need to worry about being ugly. Let it go. Sometimes, crying men can be admirable tau! Anyway, lets leave the availability of tears on the sciences.
Men might be tough, but their heart is not as tough as a rock, just a bit tougher than ours (women). But that doesn't mean that they are as cold as ice.

Practically, I think men don't cry maybe bcoz they feel that tears don't solve their miseries.

Alaaa...TimMcGraw pun cakap...'I don't know why they say grown men don't cry."

Okay lah...let's change the phrase to no women, men cry! Hehehe

p/s: I'm not a big fan of Fahrin, but MrHubby was his schoolmate. He said Fahrin likes pretty girls! ;)

18 comments:

  1. sapa laki yg x suka pompuan cantik? cantik di mata mereka tu kira cantik lah jugak kaan...pasal Fahrin,i kesian jgk dekat dia.kalau dia jenis playboy/ panas baran dsb yg didakwa those 2 "girls-perasan-lawa-mahal-sgt" tu, takkanlah dia boleh menangis? mesti dia dah control macho..aicehh..i rasa dia ni jenis setia dan suka control kot pdhal yg 2 org tu jenis easy going.

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  2. cannot agree more on man yg hati keras cma batu tu...
    those word mmg correct.
    ape ke daa..
    kat dunia bolehlah takmo nangis..
    cuba kat akhirat esok..
    kat padang mahsyar..
    yg bangsa bongkak tak menangis ni ler yg menangis dulu nnti.

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  3. salzahari,
    i agree with u. wpun fahrin mmg jenis taste x agak2, i rasa those girls mmg mcm tu la.

    sidaratul muntaha,
    haha..masa kat 'sana' nnt, dah x larat nak kontrol macho.

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  4. hebat betul cerita derang neh, tapi kenapa baru sekarang nak berperang bagai. masa baru clash diam ok jek, ade batu api ke?

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  5. ooo fahrin kwn hubby u erk? kem slm dgn dia eh..pesan kat dia, lnekali cr yg btul2 leh wat bini hehehe

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  6. ntahlah, dalam hal macam ni i rasa tindakan linda was quite not right la. kalaupun fahrin kaki pukul, biar je la benda tu lingers among them. no need to tell the whole world.

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  7. lama giler i x dgr gosip artis melayu. he doesn't really look like the typical kaki pukul type, but what do i know.

    on the topic of nangis, i think there's nothing wrong with men crying. but there's something defintiely wrong woth a guy if he cries more than you (a woman)! nasib Hubs bkn begitu! :P

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  9. Salam Isabelle, took pics with u @ MBP gath. Nice meeting u dear!

    Sebenarnya, mmg betul, pemanggil radio ni kadang2 cakap, tak pikir dulu. Ada puasa thn bila tu, pemanggil ni (lelaki) selamba aje kata dia ponteng puasa, DJ tu pulak (lelaki juga), boleh suka2 gelak. adoi!

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  10. hehe... i tgk kat TV time nangis ni.. kesian jugak..

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  11. i rasa memang ada something wrong dengan dia... kalau tak, takkan 2 orang gorjes boleh taknak kat dia hehe... i rasa la...

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  12. Suke ur entry nie :)

    Pelik kan...diorang dah lama break-off and then muncul dengan cerita macam nie. Emmm...benda2 nie pon nak jd isu, mcm lah dah takde benda lain yg lebih penting lagi...adeiii :(

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  13. huh!! typical men... dunno whos rite and wrong... tgk je la drama dorang tuh...erkkk, but to me linda onn is not so pretty...hikhik....opss!!!

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  14. yaya,
    adakah org itu Awal?

    yatiechomeyl,
    kalo pilih pun tapi x lawa, mana dia nak?!

    Dd Lala,
    apa lagi? publisiti la.

    oyis,
    woh!kalo dia melalak lagi kuat drp kita, itu sudah lebeyyy...

    unlisted one/nia,
    nice meeting u.
    tapi apa ke bodo bangang punye DJ tu pegi layan caller yg dah sedia buduh?

    lady of leisure,
    musti dia kontrol abis, takut nmpk huduh. huahuahua

    toughcookie,
    gay ke? hehe

    intan,
    nak jadi erra la tu. bcinta deny, dah clash, kecoh.

    fizamior,
    mrhubby pun ckp linda X lawa. to me, lantak la kalo dia lawa x lawa pun...

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  15. dia menangis bila part orang bagitau mak dia yang anak dia kaki pukul.. dia menangis mengenangkan mak dia.. bukan sebab dua awek tu..kesian.. dah lah mak di sakit..

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  16. pretty ke si linda Onn tu? haiyOo.. butakah mata fahrin?

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  17. xkan la masa mengadap Allah pun x nangis, shallow aaa caller tu... nyampah i!!

    kkadang jantan nie EGO X BTEMPAT!!

    -mama emma®-

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  18. asmahani,
    a'ah.ntahapahapa je diorg ni.

    anonymous,
    taste dia...nak buat mcmana?

    precious innocent,
    bwk le ego tu masuk kubur.

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