It's the 4th day I try to teach Lil Adib to drink the EBM. Direct feeding is definitely not a problem, but considering I'm gonna start sending him to the nursery next week, I guess I have to.
Well, it was pretty hard rupanya.
Lil Adam dulu, senang je- maybe bcoz awal-awal I have introduced him to the feeding bottle.
Kalo MIL tau aku baru terhegeh-hegeh nak ajar Lil Adib feed from the bottle, mampuih aku... Hehehe. Sebab awal-awal dia dah suruh, untuk biasakan, but I kept dilly-dallying.
Lil Adib ni since day 1 he was born, selalu gak dia tersedak. Tapi Dr kat DEMC citer, it's normal...bcoz babies up to 4mths-their system could move both ways. Unlike us... telan je, terus masuk dalam perut.
Speaking of tersedak ni... tak lari la drp kes-kes baby meninggal sebab tersedak susu di nurseries. Makin banyak pulak lately.
The latest was Allahyarhamah Adelia bt Fariza, the baby who died at the nursery @Sect10 (dekat sangat dengan area aku)... really made my heart torn.
It's beyond my imagination. I wonder how she suffered in the last few mins of her life.
But I'm impressed at how strong the parents are. Redha, tabah.
If I were in their shoes, ntah meroyan... ntah jadi apa.
I shared my worries with Dr S on this (when I went for Lil Adib's 2-mth jab). But she said...
"Kita tawakkal je kat Allah. U still have to go to work, don't u?"
Terus aku mengiakan "Yes. Kalo dah nak jadi.. dah tersurat ajal maut tu, kat mana-mana pun mati jugak kan Dr. Tak payah kat nursery"
Sayang Mama Lil Adib,
Please co-operate. Drink the EBM and Mama will reward u with the bon-bon afterwards. I need peace of mind when I leave u with the minders.
By the time I am about to post this entry, he has successfully drunk the EBM twice (tapi 1oz each je la.) Tu pun sekali dalam gelap (sebab dia tak nampak kot apa yang masuk ke mulut dia)... Sekali lagi sambil aku 'hidangkan' bonbon kat tepi muka dia- biar ambik bau. Hehehe.
p/s:
Aku pelik bila ada orang sengal (Islam pulak tu) yang tak tau nape Adelia dibintikan dengan nama mak dia.
salah satu berita yang agak menyeramkan kepada parents... tapi tu lah.. ajal maut di tangan Allah...
ReplyDeleteHuhuhu...sedih bila baca citer adelia nih.
ReplyDeleteMy qaira masa 1 week nak start keja baru lah i nak ajar botol, kesudahannya...dia tak nak hisap botol langsung, melalak². Tapi bila hantar kat nursery, nak tak nak terpaksalah hisap gak kan ^_^
apak,
ReplyDeletemmg risau, tapi selagi kita tawakkal kat Allah, insyAllah ok.
fiza,
tu la..hrp2 next week lil adib pun ok
scary baca cerita baby yg meniggal kat nursery nih.. tapi kalau tengok standard average nursery kat malaysia ni memang la tak heran pun boleh jadi cam tu..
ReplyDeletebetul,..ajal maut di tangan Allah. sangat kagum dgn ketabahan parents dia. kenapa binti dgn nama ibu? itulah keistimewaan kita sbg ibu di mata Islam kan Belle..bin/binti bapa utk dunia saja..
ReplyDeleteInsyaalaah tak ada apa apa selagi kita keep remind orang yang jaga anak kita . My personal point of view , babysitter/org jaga anak ni, kita mesti keep reminding walaupun nampak macam kita tak trust orang tu.Ye lah kan , beringat sebelum terjadi.Sometimes baby sitter ni kalau dah malas dia letak tuala bagi botol susu tu tak jatuh.
ReplyDeleteish mmg sdey citer tu..kesian sgttt..nursery ni pon tolong la jaga baby btol2..babay i pon nak pi nursery lg 2 wks..dh start ajar botol sejak last week, alhamdulillah mau botol avent ....lps ni nk ajor botol bumble bee ngan normal teat
ReplyDeletedulu.. anis mmg refuse bottle.. aku mcm tension gila.. aku lupa ntah ntah allah nak lindungi dia dari musibah mcm tu..
ReplyDeletesetiap lunch hour aku BF anak aku... (sb dekat dgn opis) ptgh pon aku keluar..
tp fyi... dia takde nak sabar burb kan anak ko...tkalo ada pon sekadar syarat.. kalo budak melalak.. dia letak atas rocker.. dia henjut mcm tampi padi..
aku mmg sound abis abisan jgn letak anis dlm rocker
sedihnya belle!
ReplyDeletetakut bila baca cerita-cerita cam gini!
eh lil adib maken ensem lor hehehehehe
pssst; jom laa join my playgroup!
laa dah besar dah adib.. chubby dah..comel hehe
ReplyDeletepapabear,
ReplyDeletexde pilihan kan?kita pilih yg terbaik, doa n tawakkal je la.
nia,
yezza, tapi pelik nape ada yg x tau lg
tifa,
i akan remind kat owner nursery tu..biar dia remind cikgu2 dia..hehe
farra,
aiyarkk...i kena try botol mahal gak la utk adib nih
jiji,
mmg sengal.nak mudah keje diorg je
munira,
ensem, tapi nak jodohkan dgn zahraa, adib lbh muda lak.hahaha
gee ryder,
a'ah... dah lain sikit drp masa baby
mungkin kalo bkn u yg pegang botol ok kot? masa aisyah dulu, mmg dia x mau. sehari dua nak naik ekja baru ajar botol (bijak kan i?), so mmg susah hati sbb bila i bg dia x nak. rupa kalo my mom kasi (i duk dapur), dia ok aje.
ReplyDeletepergh,, lama gile dah x buka cerita EBM. time flies lah!
psl taska tu, mmg geram sgt. i hope the authorities will do something, biar jd iktibar pada pengusaha taska lain.
eh, my word verification is 'pregi' la! alamat awal utk i start EBM journey semula kah? ngeeeee
tu lah buat dilema mak bapak nak tinggal baby kat nursery.
ReplyDeleteTawakkal 'alallah...