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Dalam kegembiraan aku nak datang ofis dan baca komen-komen korang pasal good news semalam (terlupa nak un-moderate the comments), pagi ni hati aku sedih sikit.
Yesterday, as I fetched Lil Adam, the sitter's daughter told me that Lil Adam poo-ed and pee-ed in the pants. So, I thought- well, it's just one of the things lah... biasa la tu, baru last week I potty-trained him (masa cuti seminggu tu).
This morning, Lil Adam made that face again. Dia keraskan kaki xnak masuk ke rumah sitter, walaupun aku dah umpan dengan new toys (yang dah lama aku sorokkan utk kes-kes mcm ni la). I persuaded him and suddenly the sitter appeared and told me pasal onar yang Lil Adam buat semalam. Gayanya macam it's a no-no for him to potty-train the kids and they should only be allowed without diapers kalo dah confirm xkan terkucil in the pants. Duh!
Korang bayangkan la agak-agak macam mana facial expression aku masa tu? I had to hold the mixed feelings.
Lil Adam pulak, refused to let me go, clinging to my tudung... so I gave him a hug (to soothe him la, obviously), but she said I shouldn't be doing so... nanti lagi susah Lil Adam let me go off to work.
Ntahlah...
I walked to the car, dengan suara Lil Adam menangis in the background. I felt like a bad mom, not knowing what my lil munchkin really wants.
Actually, I was about to re-discuss about my dilemma of changing Lil Adam to a new nursery as I blogged before.
Ye la kan, kali ni dah confirm that I'll be getting a baby in the next...err...say 8mths. Nursery baru tu pulak memang tak jaga baby. Kang I have to send the two kids to two different places pulak. How eh?
But, on my way to the ofc, I called MrHubby and he said "Okay...kita tukar Lil Adam ke nursery tu early next month."
Some say, alaa...budak2 memang la macam tu.
But I believe psychologically, it's still not good for a child. Buktinya, I remember my childhood days very well, as young as I was about 3.
So, dear friends... say something for me please....
Dalam kegembiraan aku nak datang ofis dan baca komen-komen korang pasal good news semalam (terlupa nak un-moderate the comments), pagi ni hati aku sedih sikit.
Yesterday, as I fetched Lil Adam, the sitter's daughter told me that Lil Adam poo-ed and pee-ed in the pants. So, I thought- well, it's just one of the things lah... biasa la tu, baru last week I potty-trained him (masa cuti seminggu tu).
This morning, Lil Adam made that face again. Dia keraskan kaki xnak masuk ke rumah sitter, walaupun aku dah umpan dengan new toys (yang dah lama aku sorokkan utk kes-kes mcm ni la). I persuaded him and suddenly the sitter appeared and told me pasal onar yang Lil Adam buat semalam. Gayanya macam it's a no-no for him to potty-train the kids and they should only be allowed without diapers kalo dah confirm xkan terkucil in the pants. Duh!
Korang bayangkan la agak-agak macam mana facial expression aku masa tu? I had to hold the mixed feelings.
Lil Adam pulak, refused to let me go, clinging to my tudung... so I gave him a hug (to soothe him la, obviously), but she said I shouldn't be doing so... nanti lagi susah Lil Adam let me go off to work.
Ntahlah...
I walked to the car, dengan suara Lil Adam menangis in the background. I felt like a bad mom, not knowing what my lil munchkin really wants.
Actually, I was about to re-discuss about my dilemma of changing Lil Adam to a new nursery as I blogged before.
Ye la kan, kali ni dah confirm that I'll be getting a baby in the next...err...say 8mths. Nursery baru tu pulak memang tak jaga baby. Kang I have to send the two kids to two different places pulak. How eh?
But, on my way to the ofc, I called MrHubby and he said "Okay...kita tukar Lil Adam ke nursery tu early next month."
Some say, alaa...budak2 memang la macam tu.
But I believe psychologically, it's still not good for a child. Buktinya, I remember my childhood days very well, as young as I was about 3.
So, dear friends... say something for me please....
Pesan mak aku... jangan sesekali kasi budak trauma!
ReplyDeletekalo dia dah sampai tahapa clingy tak mo masuk rumah babysitter tu ada laa yg dia trauma.
i setuju dgn jiji. choose something that willmd elil adam happy. takpe lah u susah sikit mula2, nanti2 bila dah biasa gdn rutin tu (maksud I hantar ke 2 tmpt yg berbeza), u takkan rasa susah sgt.
ReplyDeleteHis clingy-ness could be also due to the fact that he 'knows' that now he's got a sibling.
ReplyDeleteWe didn't realise, tapi AIR was throwing alot of tantrums in the begining (sampai tergolek2 kat lantai pun ada) and was extremely clingy to me. Now dah ok..no tantrums but clingy slightly less.
But of course, that aside, the change - I think would be good too...
betul tu..setuju ngan statement atas.belle,i penah experience masa sara duduk taska lama.dia akan menjerit2 cm nampak antu bila dia tgk teacher dia sorg ni.sampai nk tgglkan keje pn susah hati.bebulan2 i mkn hati.nk keja pn tk tenteram.sampai abg ipar pn tegur..'anak hang ni cm trauma.ada benda yg wt dia takut ngan org.biasa budak dok taska tak mcam ni'.lepas tu,i tukar sara ke taska baru yg much better dr dulu.takpela mahal sikit tapi sara hanya menangis minggu pertama di sana je.lepas tu until now dia tak penah melalak cmtu dah.dia happy je.kalau dgn teacher tu siap manja,peluk cium lagi. so i suggest u tukarla tmpt lain.sure ada yg wtkan adam tu tak serasi ngan umah bs tu.
ReplyDeleteaku rasa dia dibikin malulah sama sittermu itu.. sampe bener2 gak mau ditinggal.. kasian adam.. udahlah pindah aja tempat br dripada kek gitu.. nyebelin tau.. gak tega aku ama adam..
ReplyDeleteKesian lil' adam, tukar nursery lah, bak kata jiji, mungkin ada yg dia trauma. Tak pun adam tau yg dia akan dapat adik tak lama lagi, tu yg clingy tu.
ReplyDeletejiji,
ReplyDeletebaek, puan.
yatie chomeyl,
i hrp pun mcm tu la.
reitak,
ada gak i terfikir mcm tu, but well.. psl adik atau x, i tetap nak tukar.
lin,
jgn la esok2 dah tukar ke nursery mahal tu, adam buat hal lak.
mamapasha,
kupikir kamu mo offer jagain adam sampe dia bener2 udah pandai potty.hehehe
fiza,
moga2 dia okay lps tukar tmpt nanti
betul tu
ReplyDeletebetter find another nursery, ataupun babysitter.. susah la kalau nursery yg asyik pikir nak duit jer, tapi taknak jaga anak kita whole-heartedly. kasi lempang sama itu orang! hehe
btw.. CONGRATS girl!! hopefully baby baru nanti boleh pakai pink apparels eh :)
h4nie,
ReplyDeletetq dear. i need to discuss further with mrhubby. ada terfikir nak approach balik sitter lama adam, if she's not bz.
i nak kasi advice tak berani sebab i takde pengalaman.. huhu... semoga Allah beri u jalan yg mudah..
ReplyDeleteHi Belle..i tak laa nak bagi suggestion ka apa..all are depends on you..but the most important is to make our kids to feel happy..
ReplyDeleteYang penting, jgn laa duk pikiaq bnyk2..yg dalam perut tuh pon nak kena pikir jugak kay..Doa dan tawakal banyak2..mintak dengan Allah semoga apa yg kita buat sentiasa dibawah lindunganNYA..Aminnn
lady,
ReplyDeletexpe...u korek dulu semua pglmn kwn2. nnt smpi ur turn, dah senang.
imma,
betul tu. kdg2 i rasa mcm i x berapa peduli sgt psl baby ni. kesian lak dia.
I think better change to new place.. tapi nak cari tempat baru dan bagus tu lah masalahnya..
ReplyDeleteBabysitter nie takan tak tau proses potty train, it takes time..
Sama saje problem kita nie mak2 bekerja..hmm
alahai cedihnya..
ReplyDeletehang tukaQ ja la tempat baru yg sesuwai dgn jiwa dia. :(
bila crita pasai adam, tingat iman dulu, nangis sambil pegang tut.. alahai sedihnya!
biar la bersusah payah sket tapi janji anak buah makngah hepi! kan adam kan?