What men find sexy in women?

Okay, since tonite is malam Jumaat, let's talk about something mushy and amorous.

I bet some of u have heard men saying "Wah! Sexynya dia!" whilst ur eyes might not agree to that statement.

Sexy is not merely revealing more skin (kalo b*gel terus pun, tak sexy!) and some people can 'see' the sexiness of a woman in baju kurung too! Thus, when I heard people bitching about me being so-called-sexy, I am fully against it. It is subjective, mehh... Kalo mata tu asyik pandang 'kat situ' dan kepala tu asyik fikir 'yang itu'...pakai apa pun, semua nak kata sexy!

So, have u ever wondered what oozes a man's allure when they see a hot woman?

Amongst the things that is considered sexy to the male brain are...

1. Dress

The skimpiest dress however might not look sultry on all women. It might look nice on me, but not on u... or vice versa. So, the key is the dress that highlights your best body parts.


I myself do not have a gorgeous figure. But I know my leher is jinjang! Jinjang ye, bukan panjang! Cewah! :P So, I never looked like Jeslina-Hashim-leher-pendek-pakai-turtle-neck. Kweng kweng kwenggg.


2. Lingerie

This one is undeniably true. Whether it's lace, cotton or silk, make sure the bras and undies match. I think it's a turn off to put on red bras with yellow panties, so men might think the same too!

So, granny panties is a no-no!!! I remember being so reluctant to switch to maternity undies while my tummy was already big!

Whether bought by the husband or the wife, it's not the price that matters. It's the hidden romance behind it!

Jangan la fikir..."Alaa...pakai kat dalam, sapa je yang nampak?"


3. Confidence

Surprisingly, guys also consider a quality that has nothing to do with beauty or looks too- confidence!


An average-looking woman might have that attraction without doing anything outrageous (gedix). Just by standing tall, smiling, laughing and making eye contact (bukan kenyit mata ye) while speaking to others... we can be sexy to the men!

So, ladies...we just have to do things that show a genuine interest in the people around us and more welcoming.


4. Hair

Straight or wavy, blown dry or rumpled, men prefer the women's hair to be long. Ala-ala boleh dibelai manja gitu! Long locks reflect a sensual woman, but nowadays some guys like it short too.


I love my hair long, but short hair makes me look chic! (at this age, this is very important!)

Kalo rambut panjang, make sure it is tidy and not messy or u'd just scare ur husbands off tonite (mesti dia ingat mak lampir!) So, at any lengths, just make sure rambut tak bau busuk ye?


5. High heels

We ladies love looking at our shoe collection, but there's actually more than that.
I found in a web that stilettos sets the body posture a bit fwd, lifts up our bums by 25% with an arch of the back. Hence, the br*asts stand at attention, the calves are sorta elongated, making the hips to sway seductively when she walks. Woohoo!!!

Okay kawan-kawan..lepas ni no more Crocs or slippers. Esok bawak students masuk hutan pun I nak pakai heels la...hehe :P


Anyway....I hardly feel I am physically sexy (Yuck! ptuih!)... okay..okay..the only time I felt sexy, prolly when my b**bs kinda 'swollen' masa awal2 BF Lil Adam dulu. Ngeee :P

p/s: Alaa..orang kalo dah sexy, pakai apa pun sexy kan?